A Letter to Sandy

Dear Sandy,

       Finally, you divorced your husband in this week, or your husband divorced you ?  I always believe that  you should deserve a happy marriage.  You loaded a lot of house works and made your best and efforts for your family all the time, and you  put your husband and kids in  the first place than you.   You hardly bought a new clothes or some cosmetic for yourself, and never went to beauty saloon.  But, how come you make yourself in so difficult situation.

     As I knew, you are very brilliant person, the others take double times for doing  the same thing, but you do not need to. You are an efficient accountant, you can compress all matters in  half of working day, then, use the rest time to do your own stuff.  You told me, you envy your brother and sister who have the better life environment than you.  Putting your saving into the stock market and futures exchange are the ways to get rich.

      Don't you know you make yourself in a hard dangerous condition, when you started to look the finical source from private mortgage company?  Most people would give up the investment when they are run out all cash in hands, but you did not.   You  promised yourself will never do the same foolish things while you were asking me to lend some money.  Look at your lovely kids, you kind mother, you felt guilty about them if you can not through this problem, that day, you realized you should do something good and let your mother feel proud of you.

       One year ago, Boss Lee, your brother fired you out for some reasons, I could smell somethings wrong and tell the sorrow under your smile face. ... So, we do not keep in touch for a while. Till this Monday, Boss Lee  told me you are involved a big economic trouble, private bank companies keep looking for you because you owe them about one million dollars, "one million dollars???", a total annual income for a normal family can earn or cannot earn.

        I am sorry I can do nothing, except for praying hard for you.  Hope your situation is getting better and better, and you can learn some lessons from now... Thanks for your story, I know I will never do the same thing like you.